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Remember secondary school, when that guy who toasted you passionately, offered to spend his little pocket money on you during break period and offered to help submit your assignment got hurt that you did not say yes?

Remember how butt hurt he was? So hurt he stopped saying hi, started standing in corners with his friends to laugh at you when you walked by and started hooking up with another chic just to make you feel jealous?

Remember how stupid that was and how much laughter you could get over drinks with your girlfriends if you exchanged such memories now?

Well, thing is, I don’t have to remember stuff like this. It did not happen to me then but it is happening to me now as a grown woman.

In January, I met a guy. He’d come over to a friend’s and we’d spoken for a few seconds…

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